Have you set your goals that helps you succeed in all domains of your life? As a lot of us may identify ourselves through our career, sometimes we associate so much with what we can contribute in the work place and often forgot about this. We need a holistic plan to enjoy our life!
That’s the reason why you got to design your 2019! There are areas that you need to map out and have a plan to make your 2019 best year ever! These include the area in your health, emotional, intellectual, career, family, social, financial and relationship. Too many of us miss out the importance of the overall areas of our life and always feeling unfulfilled because you only achieve one domain of your life!
The lack of clarity become the No. 1 reason why most people can not achieve their goals. Remember, clarity is power! You need to know exactly what you want to achieve in order to get it. For example: You want to lose weight. Not writing down, I want to lose weight. You got to...
Here comes to the end of 2018! May be you’ve an exciting year, you achieved a lot of your milestone, or this year is a not so good year for you, you feel frustrated or depressed about it. I understand that. Not every year is an exciting great year, there is ups and down in our life! Whatever you feeling is, here comes to the close of this year. Most important is what we learned in this year and we can use what we learn to make our 2019 better!
What you have learned in 2018? Is time to sit down to think about it! If you’ve the habit of writing your journal, I encourage you to look back on the journal or diary. Set aside some time this few days to read them and think about this questions : What I have learned in 2018?
Then, write them down. Make it habit to write them down when you do this self check! I do this every single year. This is one of the most important lesson I learned in 2018. Less is more! I am trying to figure out what works in my business by...
Is end of December! Yea, is holiday season. Christmas and new year coming soon! Your calender must be filling up with parties and celebration! Whether is to celebrate the holiday season or celebrate your accomplishment for the year. What is the best gift you want to give to yourself?
Here is what I love to do.. may be you can try it up!
Unplug yourself from digital world for a few days! We live in the internet world. Every single day we are connected to the internet for our facebook, instagram, emails and all type of apps.
Is time to disconnect yourself from distractions from other people agenda and other people’s social media posting! Every day, you may received hundreds of email from every body, seeing hundreds of instagram or facebook post. Now, give yourself a break. You just need a soul battery recharge time. Just unplug yourself from the digital world for a short time can really recharge and refresh your mind for your work.
Go out to take a walk in the...
There is a powerful secret word hiding in the word of LEARN. Yes! You got it! Is earn. You have to learn before you can earn. Before you can have the ability to earn, you must have the skills to deliver the value, isn’t it? Where you can equip yourself with all the skills necessary for you to deliver the value? Yes, is through learning!
That’s the reason why you have to keep improving yourself! As the saying goes, if you’re not growing, you are dying..Progress enable you move forward and add value in whatever you are doing in every day life!
Here is the key! Discover new information, new material, new insight, new ideas through all the possible channel that you can access nowadays. The channel that you can find can be from online which include videos, website, research paper, articles from the reliable online sources or offline resources which include books, magazines and newspaper!
Remember this, have fun when you discover all this. Make it a habit...
She asked: I keep failing to achieve the goals that I set for myself and I feel like a total failure. What Can I do?
There is nothing to feel like a failure. We all experienced this situation before especially when early of the year, we all are so enthusiasm to set the goals for the year and almost the end of the year shockingly found out that we fail to achieve the goals. If you have the similar question like her, here is what you can do!
Step No.1: Have confidence in yourself! Trust and believe yourself you have the ability to learn the skills and do it! Sort out the skills that require to make the goals successful, go and learn it! For example: If you want to become a excellent presenter, go to learn how to give a extraordinary presentation that will WOW the audience! I personally invest a lot of of time and money along the journey to learn the necessary skills for me to achieve my goals! Always start with this, believe you have the ability to learn it and make it...
If you are like me always think that you do not have a creative mind, this episode is a MUST watch! There is no such thing call “I am not creative”, everyone of us is creative. This is how you can wake up your creative genius!
First, you have to throw away your old limiting belief about you are not creative! Instead of saying “I am not creative” change it to “I am creative and open to ideas”. Be open minded. You will start to see, hear and feel interesting things around you that can open your creative genius mind! Knowing that creativity is a learnable skills will definitely pave the way for many new ideas and breakthrough that you want! Thinking outside the box or even thinking without a box will be an excellent choice of freeing your mind from normal status quo.
Second, you can get a lot of ideas from the surrounding environment! Any advertisements, words, pictures, paintings, slogans, headlines or even labels! Be more...
If you want to have a great relationship with those around you, you got to work on it. If you start to feel your relationship with others is getting lesser connection, here is what you must do now!
Be intentional schedule the time to spend together! No matter who they are, your parents, your sisters, your brother, your uncle, your aunt, your friends, your spouse, your kids, your staff, your co-workers and etc. How long your never sit down and really talk to those people that you always want to connect to? May be you are busy with your daily activities or your career or your kids.. until you don’t contact each other for a long long time. Does this sound familiar to you? That is why you need to be intentional to schedule the time to meet up each other. Remember, because you schedule it on your calendar, it will happen! You start to invite the person for the meet up or gathering. Get a time and sit down to chat, knowing each other life and really communicate....
Are you living comfortable life right now? You stay comfortable doing everything day in and day out? If yes, you are in a red light danger zone! Here is the reason, when you feel comfortable, you start to remain as it is and no more grow.
What can you do? Like we have the song that we sing, aim high..yes, you need to aim high! Aiming to the star. Because we get what we aim for!
When you aim higher, you will start to stretch yourself. Get yourself out from your comfort zone! Start to do something new, something different, go experience and test out new challenges! When you get yourself out of the comfort zone, you will definitely feel very extremely uncomfortable. This is the time you start to grow!
Push yourself extra miles, extra steps to make things happen! You will never know how capable you are unless you keep challenge yourself to do it! Especially you know what is your passion, when you combine your passion with your determination, hunger and aim high, success is...
The quality of your life is determined by how you feel moment-to-moment. 95% of your emotions are determined by the way you talk to yourself as you go throughout your day. So your ability to use positive affirmations to keep yourself thinking about what you want is one of your most important goals. An affirmation is a statement you say that declares who you think you are and how you perceive the world to be. By controlling your inner dialogue and how you think about yourself, you can begin to assert control over every other dimension in your life.
So, This is HOW I do it. Right after I open my eyes, I talk to myself - “I love you. I am loved. I am healthy.” After some morning routine, after I did my stretching exercise, I again will say some positive affirmation! For example: I am strong, I radiate positive energy, I am getting better every day, I am making things happen, I am able to solve problem creatively and so on… Throughout the day and over...
As we all have a “To do list” everyday whether is your work, your family chores or your own workout to do list. We know the importance of “to do list” in our daily schedule. It helps us to keep ourselves prioritize to the tasks that is important. It set as a reminder to us to complete the task by the end of the day!
Since you have a “to do list”, do you have a “stop doing list”? We always get overwhelm by a lot more things that are not in our priority list. That is the reason why we need a “Stop doing list”!
Anything that should not get your attention, please dump it at the “stop doing list”. For example, in my case, I involved myself in share investment last time, as now I want to focus on my business, this share investment is in my “stop doing list”, anything regarding this, I am going to stop involve myself in at this few years. Because I want to focus on development the skills that...