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Happy New Year 2018!! I wish you all have a great start of 2018! New year, new start and new you!

For those already done your new year goals setting, congratulations! If you not yet done, still have time! Today is the 3rd January! Let us begins our year with new goals and new hope!

I have created a list of questions that you can ask yourself early of the year for your goal setting! You can access for FREE by clicking the link below! Over there I share the TOP 12 questions and I leave some blank space for you all to write it down! Only those goals that are written down are real! You may say, ya....  I do not need to write it down. Research showed that you are 42% more likely to achieve your goals just by writing them down!

Yes, write your goals down! The next step I want you to do is visualize it, you see, hear and feel that you get your goals accomplished! What you see yourself if you achieve your goals, what you hear and how you feel? Keep visualize it! Your brain...

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It's the end of the year 2017! Is this year a wonderful year for you? Or it can be better? It's time to sit down to reflect and review the year 2017!

It is my habit of spending the last day of the year, find a quite place to reflect and review my year. This is how I make it! I stay in a beach side resort, spend 2 or 3 days there alone without any distractions especially my hand phone. Set at airplane mode. I bring along my diary and a big note pad with me. Sitting at the beach chair facing the beautiful sea, listen to the wave, the wind blow on my face, feeling the warmth of the sand under my feet, turning my diary page after page from 1st Jan till 31st December of the year. It is like seeing my whole year of life right in front of me. One month after one month. I will write on my last page of my diary how I rate each of the month. What is the single one word I describe every month and one word for the whole year. It can be exciting, fun, frustrating,...

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What are you thankful for? Have you ever seen someone smile after you say thank you to them? Simple words that can make someone's day beautiful.

Sometimes, we tends to forget to say thank you to small little kind act by someone. For example: my mum loves to peel orange for me after my dinner, simple act, I never forget to say thank you to her. It is important to show you gratitude to those who has helped you in any way, do not take for granted! Never underestimate the importance of saying thank you! Look for something positive each day, even if you may need to look a little bit harder.

Especially in our everyday relationship with our family members, our parents, our spouse, we tend to take for granted. We may think its their responsibility to do this for us. In reality, we are together, together building up a happy family.  We can show our appreciation and gratitude towards their action. For example, if your husband help you to take the garbage out...

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Best present ever Everyone of us experience before give or received presents from someone. Have you ever wonder which is the best present you ever received from someone? A beautiful watch ? a teddy bear? A luxury holiday trip? or a delicious dinner together with them?

The best present you can ever give to someone is the undivided attention when you are with them. When you have dinner or a holiday trip with your family members, your spouse, your loved one. Stop looking at your mobile device! Look at them into their eyes, listen attentively to what their trying to say to you, communicate with them.

I love to observe people around me in restaurant. Sadly, most of the people in the dining table are looking at their handphone more than the person in front of them! Although physically they are together having their dinner, they just do not talk to each other! The barrier between both of them is the facebook, instagram, whatapps, and SMS…

When you spend...

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Have you ever wish you have no problems or challenges in your entire life? Everything going so smooth and fine since you are a baby till you are old? Possible? Everyone in this planet earth, we encounter hundreds, thousands or even millions of problems before we die. The only people that do not have any problem is those who lives in the coffin.

Everyday day in day out, we meet so many challenges, in our study, family, work place, relationship, financial, business… It is impossible to live without problem! As my mentor Jim Rohn said, do not wish you have less problem, wish you have more skills! We need to have the right attitude when we face with challenges or problems! Face the challenge! We can figure it out! Go and gain the knowledge of the skills necessary to solve the challenges.

If you face challenges on taking care of your sick orchids, then go to learn how to save your orchids! If you are overweight and unhealthy, then go to find the correct...

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Have you ever feel like your goal and dreams are so big and look so impossible to achieve it? A lot of people always ask me this question, my dream looks so big, how to achieve it? Sometimes we look up at your big goals, big dream. It look so so big and far far away.

This is what you can do! Break down your big goal into several small achievable steps. Then carry out one by one. One step at a time. Then all the big goals becomes a lot of small little goals. After you achieve all your small goals, you already achieve your big goal! That is what we call micro commitment. Do something so small that you will never ever fail to do every single day move forward!

After you achieve your small goal, go celebrate! Reward yourself with something to keep you motivated and fire to continue the next small steps. Be careful on the rewards, make sure the rewards is healthy. A drunken night out after you hit your target has a lot of negative consequences. You can treat...

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Everyone of us have the chance to make decision for ourselves. Some decision can be big decision, some can be small decision. Small decision like what you going to eat, what you going to ware today. Big decision can be the next career move, shifting location or even decide whether to do an operation or not.

Many of us has no problem in making the small decision everyday. But when we deal with the big decision that we need to make, we always get stuck. I always struggle in making big decision in my life last time. After that I discover, it is actually very simple to make the decision. Here are the three simple steps to make a decision that you never ever to regret.

First, go to do research on the issue, challenges or question. If you want to change a new job, go ahead to search for more information regarding the new job scope, the advantages and disadvantages of taking up this new job. If you want to move to a new location, same thing, do research on the...

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Today I have a BIG WHY to ask you! Many of us always ask how to do of something…but rarely stop and ask ourselves why we do what we do?

Have you ever ponder why you wake up every morning and going to work? Have you ever have the second thought of why you striving so hard at work? Have you ever question yourself, why you am repeated the same cycle of life every day and years to come?

You are not the machine, you do not live as a machine that repeatedly doing the same thing day in and day out! You definitely deserve more than this, isn’t? You deserve a happy, fulfilled life with what you desire to have and contribution to the society!

Most people are stuck with they do not have clarity in their life. To find the answer why you do what you do, is from the inside of your core belief! What is your belief? I mean, your core belief, your deepest, strongest heart felt belief, the one and the only one that you trust and belief in yourself! Only with...

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Have you ever experience that the books you bought and look like it stand still at the book shelf like forever? Or you start reading a few pages and will never ever can finish a book? If this situation you can relate to, this episode is for you! This week we will going to talk about how to cultivate reading habits into your daily life!

First, choose any books that grab your interest to read first! Do not scare yourself of to start with a thick book! Start with a tiny little book that you like the topics! It can be self help book, health, business, politics, biography, history. Anything that grab your interest first!

Except than novel, how many of you start reading a book from the first page? Most of us have the tendency to start reading a book from the very front page. When the information are boring and do not capture our attention, we become less interested to the book! This is what you can do, read the front and back cover of the book and pay attention...

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Have you ever read a book or article that change your life? Or have you ever learn some very useful skills from a book or magazine? Or you feel so happy after knowing some information from a book? I definitely is a book lover! I read book before I go to bed every single day without fail! A lot of people always ask me this 2 questions: First: What are the benefits of reading books? Second Question: How to cultivate reading habit in our daily life?

There are tonnes of benefits of reading. Over here, I just highlight some interesting points! First: Reading can help you relax and brings you joy! Read some article or book or even novel can help you de-stress! By making reading before bed a habit, you can even signal your brain when it’s time to go to sleep!

No 2: Reading those self help book can help you understand yourself better and help you grow! You can discover your character and your behaviors too. I am big fans of reading personal development...