How to deepen your connection with others Part 1

SUMMARY 

Your quality of life is directly influenced by the quality of your relationship with others. In our everyday life, we’re surrounded by all types of people. From our family members, our colleagues, customers, suppliers, friends, and significant others. Our relationship with them definitely can influence our emotions and quality of life.

The No.1 thing you must do to have a great relationship with them is genuine when you are communicating with them. This means you are connecting with them with your genuine heart. You truly mean what you say. When you smile, give them a genuine smile. A genuine smile is from your heart, is a real smile. If you give them a fake smile, they can sense it very fast.

Then, you must pay 100% undivided attention to the person in front of you when you are communicating with them—not scrolling your Facebook, Instagram, social media. You’re giving your 100% attention to what they’re saying. When you’re talking with them, be a good listener. Listen with your ears, your eyes, and your heart. Try your super best to understand them. Meaning you can feel what they feel. If you can make this a habit, I promise you, your relationship with others will dramatically improve.

Next, I want you to give a call to them once a while just to ask how are you—concern about how their life is recently. Be the one that takes the first step to pay a visit or at least make a phone call to them. This action will reconnect you with the person that long time you lost touch with. You may say, this will scare others off. You can do this slowly, start by sending text messages, and then phone calls. If you want, writing a handing writing letter to someone is a great way too. If you're going to take it seriously, you’ll make a move to do something. Or else, you will give a thousand excuses not to do it.

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